I thought I was the only one with this problem. I find that a prayerful journey through the book of Proverbs usually resolves all the issues within me first. As I address all the issues with me such as speech, attitude, behavior, and such the LORD takes care of my fussy unlovable neighbor and somehow makes them more lovable.

Most of the time I find that I am not at peace with Maker and start to notice what's wrong with everyone around me first without examining myself. So, bad relationships are usually the red flag for me since my relationships are all very strong with the people I know when I am at peace with my Maker. That usually opens the door for bible talk in the office since I need to have the right heart to be led by Him and hear His voice. I have been getting more and more opportunities to share the gospel and general bible talk with co-workers as a result.